The definition of the opposite -x of a number x is the number that added to x gives 0. This is whatever the number x is.
In particular -ab is the number that added to ab gives 0.
a). Now consider (-a)*b, and add:
(-a) * b + ab = ((-a) + a) * b, by the distributive property.
But (-a)+ a=0 by definition, so we have 0*b, and then 0*b=0.
So we see that (-a) * b + ab = 0, and then (-a) * b =- ab
b). Also, since 1+(-1)=0 by definition, this tells us that 1 is the opposite of -1, that is 1 = -(-1)
Now, to the question itself:
(-1) * (-1) = - (1*(-1)) because of the proof in a). And again
(-1) * (-1) =- (1*(-1))=-(-(1*1)). Because of the proof in b), we now have
(-1) * (-1) =-(-1) = 1
QED
Remark: I have assumed that we know 0*b=0. This can also be proven