#f'(x):=lim_(h rarr 0)(f(x+h)-f(x))/h#
#f(x)=1/(x-3)#
#:. f'(x)=lim_(h rarr 0)(1/((x+h)-3)-1/(x-3))/h=#
#=lim_(h rarr 0)1/h*((x-3-(x+h-3))/((x+h-3)(x-3)))=#
#=lim_(h rarr 0)1/h*((color(green)color(green)cancel(x)color(magenta)cancel(-3)color(green)cancel(-x)-hcolor(magenta)cancel(+3)))/((x+h-3)(x-3))=#
#=lim_(h rarr 0)1/color(green)cancel(h)*(-color(green)cancel(h)/((x+h-3)(x-3)))=#
#=color(red) - lim_(h rarr 0)1/((x+h-3)(x-3))=-1/(x-3)^2#